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7 Reasons Professional Women Are Ditching One-Size Advisors
A reality check on traditional financial advice and the AI-assisted stack I recommend instead.
By Ellen Falbo
When I meet a VP of Product or Chief of Staff who earns six figures yet still feels “behind,” it’s rarely about math—it’s about mismatched advice. Here are the seven reasons I’m nudging ambitious women toward a modular, tech-forward money stack.
- Employer comp is spiky. Traditional advisors assume predictable salaries. My stack treats RSUs, bonus cycles, and sabbatical gaps as programmable cashflow events.
- Decision fatigue is real. Automations inside tools like Monarch Money or Tiller route dollars the moment they hit checking. You review strategy monthly, not every morning.
- Values need a seat. A custom IPS (investment policy statement) in Notion keeps philanthropy, career pivots, and caregiving pauses on the same page as net worth goals.
- Underwriting still lags. Using alternative bureau data and your own transaction exports lets you pre-score mortgage options before sales reps ever call.
- Advisory fees compound too. Moving to a flat-fee CFP + DIY index funds often saves 0.75% annually—on $500K that’s $3,750 back in your plan.
- AI is now a second brain. Chat-based models ingest anonymized budgets to spin up scenarios (“What if I max mega backdoor Roth + daycare costs spike?”) in seconds.
- Community resets standards. Group strategy sessions beat lonely spreadsheets. I host quarterly “Money Lab” salons where we redline each other’s plans.
Try the 45-Minute Audit
- Export last 90 days of transactions
- Bucket spending into Must Fuel, Nice to Have, Future Self
- Ask AI (Claude, ChatGPT) to spot recurring leaks or underused subscriptions
- Reinvest the savings in a single catalytic move (debt sprint, brokerage automation, or career upskilling)
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